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COMMUNITY COVENANT & CONDUCT
Our Community Guidelines
Seven pillars that govern every interaction on Truvows — from identity to intimacy, from events to emergency protocols.
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Authentic Registry
Every member verified against government-issued ID
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SafeDate Circle
Trusted guardian network active at every in-person meeting
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Total DRM Shield
Screenshot prohibition enforced with legal consequences
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Pillar 01
Radical Honesty
Expected Conduct
- check_circleDeclare your civil status truthfully at registration
- check_circleRe-certify your status every 90 days without exception
- check_circleNotify Truvows immediately if your status changes between cycles
Unacceptable Violation
- cancelMisrepresenting marital or civil partnership status
- cancelFailing to disclose a pending divorce or separation
- cancelCreating any profile element designed to mislead
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Pillar 02
Enthusiastic Consent
Expected Conduct
- check_circleSeek explicit, enthusiastic consent before escalating any interaction
- check_circleRespect boundaries stated during the 15-minute live intro session
- check_circleHonour any withdrawal of consent immediately and without question
Unacceptable Violation
- cancelPressuring any member to accelerate interaction beyond their comfort
- cancelIgnoring stated boundaries during or after SafeDate sessions
- cancelAny form of coercion, manipulation, or repeated unwanted contact
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Pillar 03ZERO TOLERANCE
Zero Tolerance for Harassment
Expected Conduct
- check_circleTreat every member with dignity regardless of outcome
- check_circleReport harassment immediately via the in-app emergency channel
- check_circleCooperate fully with any Truvows safety investigation
Unacceptable Violation
- cancelAny form of harassment, intimidation, or threatening language
- cancelSharing or publishing private communications without consent
- cancelRetaliatory contact after a member ends an interaction
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Pillar 04
Romance Scam & Financial Ban
Expected Conduct
- check_circleReport any member who requests financial assistance
- check_circleReport suspicious gift requests or investment discussions immediately
- check_circleCooperate with the National Fraud Authority referral process
Unacceptable Violation
- cancelRequesting, soliciting, or accepting money from any member
- cancelPromoting investment opportunities or financial products
- cancelAny behaviour consistent with romance fraud — refer to National Fraud Authority
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Pillar 05
In-Person Event & Venue Respect
Expected Conduct
- check_circleArrive at events sober and in good faith
- check_circleUse the code-word Angelica to signal discomfort to any host or escort
- check_circleRespect all venue staff, rules, and noise levels
Unacceptable Violation
- cancelAttending events under the influence of impairing substances
- cancelRecording, photographing, or sharing images of other attendees
- cancelDisruptive, aggressive, or disrespectful behaviour toward venue staff
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Pillar 06
SafeDate & Escort Protocol Integrity
Expected Conduct
- check_circleActivate SafeDate for every first meeting regardless of venue type
- check_circleSync at least one trusted guardian before the meeting
- check_circleComplete the inactivity check-in at 45-minute intervals
Unacceptable Violation
- cancelSharing SafeDate session codes or guardian access with third parties
- cancelDeliberately falsifying inactivity pings to avoid guardian alerts
- cancelCircumventing or disabling SafeDate to avoid accountability
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Pillar 07PERMANENT EXPULSION + LEGAL NOTICE
Privacy & Screenshot Prohibition
Expected Conduct
- check_circleTreat all profile information as private and confidential
- check_circleDelete any received media immediately upon request
- check_circleReport any privacy breach you witness, even if not personally affected
Unacceptable Violation
- cancelTaking, saving, or distributing screenshots of any profile or conversation
- cancelSharing personal data of any member outside the platform
- cancelAny breach of this pillar will result in permanent expulsion and legal action
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999UK Emergency Services
0808 2000 247National Domestic Abuse Helpline
"55"Silent Emergency — press 55 when prompted
priority@truvows.com
Truvows Priority Safety Team
Incident Resolution Matrix
Tier 1Notice
Tier 2Re-Verification
Tier 3Suspension
Tier 4Permanent Expulsion
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The Community Pledge
By joining Truvows, every member pledges to uphold these seven pillars in every interaction — digital and in-person.
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